Japanese art of emotionally connected rope work
Learn shibari
in Ghent and Leuven
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Sam
Studio ESSam
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Feel the MAGIC of real connection through rope ✨
Discover the art of Shibari in Belgium’s most supportive learning community!
Have you ever felt that FONK when two people truly CONNECT? That moment when time seems to stand still and you feel completely SENIED and COMMITTED? Shibari – the Japanese art of emotionally connected bonding – creates exactly these moments of deep human connection.
Join our thriving communities of rope enthusiasts in Ghent and Leuven, where every BODY is welcome to explore this transformative practice in a safe, judgment-free environment. 🌿
Ready to begin your journey?
Shibari is more than you think
This traditional Japanese practice is about creating DEEP EMOTIONAL CONNECTION through the conscious use of rope. It is a moving meditation in which the giver learns to remain fully ATTACHED while the receiver experiences what it means to truly GIVE OVER in safety.
In our practice you will discover:
- ✨ How rope becomes a bridge for deep intimacy between people
- ✨ The transformative power of conscious presence and touch
- ✨ How physical restriction can create mental and emotional freedom
- ✨ The art of boundaries – both delineating and respecting them
- ✨ What it means to trust and be trusted at the deepest level
- ✨ The silent power that arises when we dare to make ourselves vulnerable
This is not about tricks or techniques – it is about transformation. 🦋
Shibari Bootcamp (Level 0)
Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to COMPLETELY let go?
Maybe you’re curious about shibari but didn’t know where to start. Maybe you’ve seen beautiful rope photography and wondered “Could I ever create such experiences?” Or maybe you are tired of superficial connections and HUNK for something real, something that touches your soul.
The Shibari Bootcamp is where your journey begins. ✨
What happens during this half-day journey:
- ✅ Fundamental philosophy: understanding Shibari as a philosophy, not just techniques
- ✅ Essential Safety: Building knowledge to practice confidently and safely
- ✅ Technical fundamentals: Mastering the fundamentals needed to create deep experiences
- ✅ Focus on connection: learning how rope becomes a conductor for deep intimacy
- ✅ Both roles: Each participant practices both as giver ALSO receiver
Perfect for:
- 🌱 Absolute beginners without any experience with ropes
- 🌱 Singles – no partner needed
- 🌱 Couples who want to explore together in a supportive group
- 🌱 Anyone seeking authentic human connection beyond the superficial
Language: Shibari Bootcamp groups continue in Dutch unless otherwise expressly stated. For private bootcamp in English, see Shibari private classes.
Shibari Bootcamp trailer May 2025 (in Dutch)
Next shibari bootcamps
Recent participants share:
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“I came with no expectations, found it quite exciting. A warm welcome in a pleasant setting immediately made me sink into my body. The gentleness with which Sam introduced us, from origin to teaching was also very pleasant. Grateful for the beautiful journey I took, I enjoyed immensely, both giving and receiving touched me deeply. More of that, please!”
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“It was a very nice introduction to shibari. The manner, intention, attention and focus and care of the giver was key. An art I would love to continue practicing. It definitely leaves you wanting more. In both receiving and giving, you encounter different aspects of yourself. It can certainly be a path to more self-awareness.”
Shibari Connect Nights
- Where communities grow 🌱 (level 1+)
Feeling that VONK during your first workshop…. But struggle to keep it alive at home?
You learned the basics, went home ENTHOUSIAST with your new rope…. but without regular practice and community support, those magical moments of the workshop began to feel like distant memories. Sound familiar?
The gap between “I learned this once” and “I can create profound experiences” – that’s where most people get stuck. 🌊
This is where the REAL magic happens
Shibari Connect Nights are not just practice sessions. It is where you build the CONFIDENCE and COMMUNITY that transforms incidental rope play into a profound practice that enriches your life.
Each evening includes:
19:00-20:30: FOCUSED CLASS
- ✅ Independent classes suitable for those who have recently completed boot camp
- ✅ Each session explores different aspects of shibari
- ✅ Building a broad base and expanding your toolbox
20:30-22:00: COMMUNITY ROPE JAM
- ✅ Safe practice space with guidance available
Season Pass – Your Community Membership
You are welcome to try out on any Connect Night by simply signing up. Want all the benefits of our community? Get a season pass!
- ✅ Unlimited access to all Connect Nights in both cities during the season
- ✅ Repeat Bootcamp at no additional cost
✅ Experiment with what you’ve learned - ✅ Connect with fellow enthusiasts
- ✅ Find partners to practice with between classes
Who thrives here:
- ⭐️ Those who have completed the Bootcamp ready for ongoing development
- ⭐️ Solo enthusiasts looking for community and practice partners
- ⭐️ Couples who want to deepen their practice together with others
- ⭐️ Everyone committed to CONSISTENT GROWTH rather than one-time experiences
Language: Connect Nights are held in Dutch by default, but lessons and instructions are given in English when non-Dutch speakers are present.
The transformation you can expect:
🌱 After three months: Your hands know the basics without thinking, confidence grows
🌿 After six months: You have a solid toolbox and can create varied, meaningful experiences
This is not just about learning rope techniques – it is about joining a COMMUNITY of growth-oriented people who support each other’s journey. 💫
Next shibari connect nights
Participants from 2024 share:
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“I was hesitant to join monthly classes after boot camp, but this community is ❤️❤️❤️. The support from both Sam and the other participants gave me confidence so quickly – my friends couldn’t believe how good and confident I had become after just three classes! That consistent practice surrounded by amazing people made all the difference. I never expected to feel so at home and grow so quickly.”
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“Highly recommended! Sam is a great teacher. The course is well structured, the demonstrations are very clear and individual support is given where needed. Thanks! “
Why our shibari community is different
You’re not the only one who feels this way
Maybe you recognise it – that HUNGER for something more real than the superficial connections that seem to be all around you. That voice that whispers that more is possible between people. That longing to be fully SEEN, to be fully CONNECTED with another human being.
You belong here.
My name is Sam. Since 2023, I have had the privilege of teaching over 200 people who felt the same way. People who were tired of “just okay” and ready for something that touches their SOUL. Our Bootcamp has now sold out 8 times – not because we teach the best knots, but because people find what they were looking for here: a place where they belong.
What I share with you
I have personally experienced the life-changing power of what happens when two people truly LET GO in each other’s presence. Those moments when rope is no longer rope, but becomes a bridge to something much bigger than ourselves.
For those who already feel what I am describing – who already know they belong here but want to understand more about WHAT this actually does to you – I have captured everything I have learned in “Rope & Release.” This is no instruction book. It is an invitation to prepare your heart for what you are about to experience. To understand why shibari can touch people so deeply. To feel in advance what is possible.
The book is there for when you are ready. For now: your presence here, your curiosity, your desire for more – that’s enough.
Are you ready?
The question is not whether you are “ready” – but whether you are READY to discover what is possible.
That curiosity you feel? Your body is telling you something IMPORTANT. You are ready for connection that changes you.
Your journey begins here:
Never tried it before? The Bootcamp welcomes you.
Ready for more? Connect Nights await you.
Want to make it more personal? Private lessons for your journey.
Don’t wait for perfect circumstances. The people who transform are those who feel the calling and ACT.
The only question is: Are you ready to say YES to yourself? ✨
Private shibari lessons
Do you want FULL ATTENTION and PERSONAL ASSISTANCE for your shibari journey?
Sometimes group workshops don’t fit into your schedule, or maybe you prefer to learn in a more INTIME SETTING with your partner or close friends, or want lessons in English. Maybe you have SPECIFIC QUESTIONS or want to progress at your own pace without the dynamics of a larger group.
Shibari Private Lessons offer you the ultimate in personalized learning. ✨
Sam offers you an abbreviated bootcamp (3 hours) for your first contact with Shibari Bootcamp or private lessons adapted to your level (up to level 3).
Practical details:
- ✅ €130 per hour (absolute beginners: minimum booking of 3 hours)
- ✅ Up to 4 students included in the base price. (Larger groups: please contact us for a quote)
- ✅ Practice partner required. Don’t have a partner? We can provide one for an additional €100/hour
Ready to create your PRIVATE SHIBARI EXPERIENCE? Write to me via WhatsApp!

